Dealing with pre-wedding jitters

Author Maria G

• OMG! I am getting married!
• Yikes I am getting married!
• Wait! Am I getting married?
• Whoa! That is way too soon!
• Wait, no I need to wait!
And then your mind starts planning
• Run Away! That’s right; I am just going to run away!
• I can’t do it! I ‘ll just go and say no, it is way too soon!
• Ok simple I am just going to say, we can wait…
• I quit!
But after it sinks in that you just can’t do any of these, you start thinking
• OMG the shoes! I don’t have my shoes yet
• The dress, it is too tight!
• what about my bridal bouquet
• The favor bags, I need more…
• What about the bridesmaid hair?
• my makeup, what style should I choose
• Oh No! The cake is not final yet!
And then you just fall on the chair and drop your hands!
“I give Up!” you say…
But wait! we say you need to stay calm, relax, take a few deep breaths. What you are dealing with right now are your pre-wedding jitters, anxiety is very common, I have been married 15 years now and I still remember my pre-wedding anxiety and panic attacks.
The reason being
you are committing into something very important which you hope will last for a lifetime, the reality hits you that you are actually going to be with your partner 24/7 means you might have to put up with his/her snoring every night! Or he/she does not put the toilet seat cover down! Or he/she leaves dirty dishes in the sink … and those things which you never noticed start to hit you! God! Why did I even fall in love with him/her in the first place…but fear not! This too shall pass :)
You have so much planning to do it is stressing you out. The wedding planning is so stressful, so many things to do and there is “always” so little time.
And sometimes you are just nervous about the big day! What if I trip on the aisle, what if my dress rips from sides, what if my cake tastes bad, what if the food is not right, what if I lose my earring, what if ring bearer loses the ring…
The truth is, to worry there are a 101 reasons
And to relax just one “keep calm and get married”
How do you deal with this stress?
Take a break! Take a day off from all wedding preparations and just relax with your friends who make you smile and laugh
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Make a list, start ticking off the “to do list” it will make you feel in charge and in control

During your planning process you will be looking at your phone a lot! Checking texts and emails, why not have a fun phone cover which reminds you every time you look at it that you have to “keep calm and get married”. I came across a few which might put a smile on your face, look at these

 

 

enjoy your wedding planning, don’t worry or stress out, think that many years from now you will look back to your special day and smile and tell your kids about your preparation, how you got the dress done, what was the cake like, how you prepared favors and believe me even after so many years all the memories are so clear (if you have one like mine ;)
I smile and tell my girl about everything a she is always so excited, I show her my wedding dress, we look at the album together… it is an amazing feeling.
Last but not the least, just remember so what if you lose an earring, so what if you trip down the aisle, so what if one of the flower in your bouquet is white instead of purple, so what if your veil is a bit short…

in the end what matters is that it is going to be “YOUR” day, a new meaning and beginning of “YOUR” life, you are going to be with this person you fell in love with, love is the reason you are here! so let love deal with it, even if there is a mishap, don’t let it get to you, find humor in it, believe me years later you will look back and laugh at it,

I faltered down the aisle and I laugh now thinking I must have looked funny but the truth is no one remembers, only you do so smile and move one :) and let love make its way.
Good luck my lovelies!
How did you or are dealing with your pre wedding jitters? Let us know in your comments :)

 

Author Maria G is an award winning wedding stationery designer, her designs are unique and stylish and cater to almost every wedding theme and color, if not, she will gladly help you with a custom design and work with you till you are totally satisfied.

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Date: September 5, 2014

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